DIPLOMATIC

 

We have always been taught that honesty is the best policy, and that to lie is a bad thing to do.

As we grow older, we realise that in many situations, it is a good idea to keep quiet or better still, be diplomatic and tactfully handle sensitive issues. The dividing line between being honest and being diplomatic is a thin one. We have to be careful in deciding when to be honest and when to be at our diplomatic best. We also have to decide whether we should be absolutely

can did, or use the truth as a matter of convenience?

To be completely honest, you must ask yourself,

"Why am I afraid of speaking the truth"? You will find that the answer is obvious. Our Diplomacy is only for our self-protection; it is a self-preservation device. Our egos are too fragile to accept insult and criticism. In our daily lives, few of us want to rock the boat by speaking the truth at work or in our homes. We like to avoid confrontations. The difference between living a superficial life and a rich and meaningful one eventually determined by whether we are be diplomatic or brutally honest.

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